Taking Responsibility for Your Relationships

Questions for Reflection:

1.  How would you describe your level of SKILL in living out The 4 Habits in your relationships?

  • Which people / groups do you tend to criticize more than others?
  • Who do you need to be more careful and less crushing with?
  • Where are there unchecked assumptions and biases that need Courageous Conversations?
  • Who do you need to invest more time with, to make stronger connections?

2.  Think of three relationships that are really important to you.  On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 1 being ‘not interested’ to 10 being ‘very motivated’), how would you describe your level of WILL to work on making each relationship more of a success?

  • Relationship 1, your WILL score:
  • Relationship 2, your WILL score:
  • Relationship 3, your WILL score:

3.  If you had to choose just one habit to work on first to help improve all three relationships, which of The 4 Habits* would that be?

  • Relationship 1, Habit to focus on:
  • Relationship 2, Habit to focus on:
  • Relationship 3, Habit to focus on:

* Reminder of The 4 Habits…

  • Habit #1: BE CURIOUS, not critical
  • Habit #2: BE CAREFUL, not crushing
  • Habit #3: ASK, don’t assume
  • Habit #4: CONNECT, before you correct

The long-awaited book in which you can discover The 4 Habits to all successful relationships.